Stories From Our Families

Unexpected News for Young Parents Carlsbad parents Eva and Kyle Stafford were at a prenatal checkup for their third child when they got some terrifying news: “Your baby’s lungs have fluid in them. We don’t know why. If they keep swelling, he’s not going to survive.” They were in shock. Their first two pregnancies had been easy. Now, they were being asked to prepare for in vitro surgery — an operat …

Valeria, in glasses, with big brother Armando Jr., mom Veronica, sister Viviana, and dad Armando Sr. Valeria is an old soul, according to her mother, Veronica Raymundo. At six years old, Valeria seemed wise beyond her years, with a calm and loving presence. She rarely complained. But Veronica and her husband, Armando, knew something was wrong when their daughter had a fever that just wouldn’t stay …

We’ve been delighted to get to know Milo Bingham and his parents over the years – this sweet boy is pictured here with his mom, Janet. But at his birth eight years ago, his parents  got terrible news: Milo had a rare, complex heart defect that needed immediate open heart surgery for the best chance at life.  And this advanced care wasn’t available at their Hawaii hospital. Crossing the ocean to sa …

Cassandra Junkin’s parents knew something was wrong when their usually cheerful four-year old was too listless to play. It was Valentine’s Day, and she had no interest in cards or sweets. Doctor’s visits and tests revealed the unthinkable: Cassandra had leukemia and needed treatment right away. That was 10 years ago, in 2007. Leticia and Don Junkin kept close to their daughter by staying at our or …

Like most families, videogame animator Sarah Barnes never expected to stay at San Diego’s Ronald McDonald House. But when surgery for her daughter’s heart condition took a turn for the worse, the Ronald McDonald House was the home base that kept her going. Sarah adopted 4½-year-old Naya after a visit to China. This determined and inquisitive girl had survived many challenging transitions in her yo …

The Zimmer boys and their dad love science fiction, tabletop war games, and Pokémon. Scott’s a university librarian, and Sophia homeschools 17-year-old Andrés and 11-year-old Santiago. Santiago seemed low energy on a particularly hot July day. Then he was screaming in pain. After rushing to the emergency room, the family was shocked to learn that a tumor on Santiago’s liver had ruptured. They’d ne …

Life was busy during May 2014 for Robe and Meridith Whittemore, a firefighter and event planner raising a toddler girl in Point Loma. These active, beach-loving parents were eagerly expecting their second child. Yet everything changed at 37 weeks, when routine ultrasound showed blood on their baby’s brain. Doctors ordered an emergency C-section, and rushed their baby to intensive care at Rady Chil …

When Patrick Sy plays superhero, you can believe him. At just three years old, he became a super donor for his big sister and best buddy, Rina Sy, who was diagnosed with leukemia shortly before Mother’s Day last year. Parents Marianne and Keith Sy spent several months at Rina’s hospital bedside, helping her endure three initial grueling rounds of chemotherapy. Anxious and exhausted, they tried to …

“Oh, yes I can!” That may turn out to be one of the first sentences from Manani Shakir. This wonder boy has been a source of joy to his mother, Makeda Shakir, and to his grandparents and aunt who are taking an active role in his life. Manani Proves the Predictions Were Wrong “So many times we’ve been told that Manani wouldn’t speak, wouldn’t walk, wouldn’t eat independently,” recalls Temecula resi …

Our cover mom, Nadia Castillo says of herself, “I’ve always been determined.” And now, she’s got a daughter who may just exceed her in motivation. Nadia is a couture designer who, after traveling the world as a model, returned to San Diego and married her teenage sweetheart, Phillip. After joining the Marines, Phillip later became director of operations for a senior services nonprofit. Just before …